WHAT IS TRUE BEAUTY

WHAT IS TRUE BEAUTY I feel there is a need for discussion and education regarding topic. There is a high degree of need in Asian countries especially South East Asia. Beauty lies deep within. No matter what you look like on the outside, if you know you are beautiful, nothing can change that. That attitude is more important than others opinions. Beauty doesn’t mean outward opinion. Beauty is the Characteristic of an individual. There is a saying of a beauty that beauty is Truth, Truth is beauty. Beauty includes Psychological factors such as Personality, Intelligence, Courtesy, Charisma, Veracity, Honesty, Truthfulness, and Compassion, Congruence, Dignity, Grace and Style with Physical appearance. But most of the people think that Outer smooth skin of White, young body, proportioned measurements of women and regular features have traditionally considered as beauty. It is not just outward deep skin. We can’t judge a book quality basing on its cover design. The men or women may look beautiful physically with white complexion but they may be cruel at heart. Physical appearance is always deceptive. Beauty is the cream of life and it is the essence of life too. The face is not the true index of mind. The better Values we maintain will enhance our outer beauty. The external beauty always fades with time, but internal beauty is always with you. It always remains with you forever. Nobility is always increases your value. The real text of man is achieving and keeping of words. The opinion and insight of beauty is always Subjective. The Young may not understand the importance of Inner beauty. They are quite emotional and hasty. They may be misguided and may select the outward beauty. Beauty is innate and emotional perception of an individual. They think that beauty means individual affection, attraction, attachment, gratification, pleasure and satisfaction. The Narsistic Personality disorder people wrongly understand and interpret the meaning of beauty and misguided by its meaning and fell into its vanity. We have to change the attitude of the young minds. Big debates have to be organized in the Adolescent age to change their dogmas. We have to change their mind set and prejudiced outlook. The present market economy wrongly interprets the meaning of Beauty and selling it as a product to mint money. It is unethical, injustice and inhuman. Big social debate has to be organized on this state of events. We have our own opinion of beauty. You may not change it because of others. My experience as psychologist often tells me that people who are black in color has a high degree of Inferiority complex. Though they born in a rich family or educated family, they couldn’t over come this problem. The issue may be more complicated in the middle class, poor and uneducated. They may face more problem of out of this. The brought up and the environment and our advertisement and the media plays more role in establishing of this problem in the minds of those people. How can the skin tone be changed with applying cosmetics? We have to work hard to improve their thinking. But in reality most of the parents failed to change their offspring’s attitude. We have to build self confidence in their mind about beauty concept. But it is hard to teach them but is high priority. We should not compare or others to compare our children. This sort of comparison may leads to their downfall. The teenagers may take this problem so intensively. The parents have to analyze, interpret and evaluate the reasons for their behavior. Beauty is thinking and perspective. If we like a thing it is the interest of the thing or like but not the its physical beauty. Different people like different things. They may not like the same thing. One may like on thing and the other may like another. “Yato drushti tato man ha“. One writer wrote a Ghazal in telugu. “Drustini battey kanipistundidadi Srushatani annavau. Nuvvadi Vadam Annavu nenadi Vedam Annanu. So it is the person’s perspective of viewing the object. So it is as the view point of the person mind seeing it. Thus it our thought and mind make the object beautiful. Most popular persons in this world Mahatma Gandhi and Mother Teresa are not physically beautiful. Yet they have huge popularity. The inner beauty enhances the outer beauty. KESIRAJU RAMPRASAD EDUCATIONAL PSYCHOLOGIST